Sorting out children’s issues is best approached through open communication with your ex-partner to reach a mutually beneficial agreement. However, it’s advisable to seek independent legal advice beforehand to understand your rights and responsibilities clearly. This ensures that you’re well-informed and aware of where you stand before engaging in discussions with your ex-partner.

If you and your ex-partner reach an agreement, it’s advisable to seek a court order from the Family Law Courts that reflects your agreement. Having a court order provides the advantage of enforceability—if your ex-partner fails to adhere to the agreement, you have legal recourse to seek enforcement through the court.

We can assist you in drafting the necessary paperwork to obtain a consent order, ensuring that your agreement is formalized and legally binding, offering you protection in case of non-compliance by your ex-partner.

The court may issue ‘interim’ orders regarding your child while you and your ex-partner await the trial. These interim orders hold significant weight because, during the trial, the court will consider the ‘status quo’—the existing situation. If your child is content and well-adjusted with the interim arrangements, the court may hesitate to alter them. This underscores the importance of seeking legal advice early on to ensure you’re well-prepared and informed throughout the legal process.

You can submit an application to the Family Law Courts for orders regarding children’s matters at any stage. If there are changes in your circumstances or those of your ex-partner, you have the option to reapply to the court to modify existing orders or request new ones. This flexibility allows for adjustments to be made as needed to accommodate evolving circumstances and ensure the best interests of the children are met. You can apply for an extension of time but it may be difficult and typically, will add to the cost.